5 Love Languages Test

Bismillah
Assalamualaikum..

Dah lama tak menulis. Sebenarnya banyak je benda nak tulis, tapi bila ada perasaan malas tu, memang tak berjalan segala macam benda yang mahu dibuat. hmmm..

So, today I would like to write about something that recommended by my senior, 5 Love Languages Test.

How can she came out with this test?
Actually we were having a meeting about our mutarabbi (anak buah dalam usrah). What is the best way to tackle them? What is the best way to win their heart?

If we do not know the way, how can we done it right?

So, she came out with this kind of test.
5 Love Languages Test.
It's all online. Just search for 5 Love Languages Test, then you will brought to it.

Okay this is the website where you can do the test.

Basically, the questions are all interesting to answer. Do try it on your own.

The result will be divided into 5 parts (languages).

1. Act of services

2. Word of Affirmation

3. Receiving Gifts.

4. Physical Touch

5. Quality Time

I've done the test twice. But the top result for both are the same, Act of Service.

From my point of view, what the top result of yours, is the way you done it to other people.

For example, if the number one result is word of affirmation. So, maybe you're the person with a sweet lips. Who loves to complimented others.

If you are the person who got receiving gifts as the number one, so, maybe you're the person who loves to give presents or gifts to another person.

seriously.

Honestly, based on my own result, i seriously know that I'm a person who is really bad in saying something nice. I dont say I love you to any person. I've a serious problem when I need to buy someone any gift or present. I'll have a goose bump when people rub her hand on my back. 

But the way that I show that I care about them is doing some chores, cleaning up the places, pouring water into cups, cooking some dishes, etc.

I know that I got all this manners from my abah. We, the family, really really know that he's the person who seriously dont talk much how far he cares about our family. Of course we never heard he says 'I love my child', 'I care about you', etc. But we all know that he trying so hard in earning some money to give to our family. He's the man of action.

But the irony is, my mak is the woman of word of affirmation. hahaha... 

She loves to complimented this and that. I think because of her career as a teacher that need to complimented or motivated her students.

And the most ironic thing is most of her children is a person with act of services type.

I felt pity to my mak.

hukhukhuk..

Another thing that I got is because of my word of affirmation, receiving gifts, and physical touch is very low in result, I do really appreciate who can done to me. Ahaks~

Because I know, for me to do that to another person, the probability is seriously low. I'll feel weird when I do it. But when another person do it on me, I do appreciate it. Kahkahkah

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So, I've done this test towards my mutarabbis.

Haha... some of them got result that slightly different from mine.

And you know what, it's surely hard to do that to them.

but one of my senior said, "Do try it to win their heart. Although it's not in your blood to say something sweet or to give someone gifts, etc."

so, selamat beramal.

peace yo. Sa;am ^_^